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u contradict yourself by saying she is really beautiful but then saying she is too big...did you not know that in this society someone cannot be beautiful and big?if she is already as beautiful as you say then her weight should not be an issue..now should it?
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I think it%26#039;s unfair to call this guy shallow simply because he finds himself attracted to a particular body type. How many women like shorter guys -- especially guys shorter than them? How many women would go out with a guy who%26#039;s poor?
He just knows himself and that%26#039;s imprtant in life. don%26#039;t give in to their shaming!
But to answer your question, it does seem that to ask your significant other to lose weight in our current culture is not acceptable (that is, if she%26#039;s a woman. You can call your SO a fat load if he%26#039;s a guy), so you%26#039;re really better off finding someone better suited to you if that%26#039;s what%26#039;s important to you. -
I wouldn%26#039;t ask her to lose weight; that%26#039;s pretty rude. Ask her to start walking with you when the weather is nice, go for walks in the park, etc. Incorporate healthy activities into your lifestyle as a couple and maybe she%26#039;ll drop a few pounds but your relationship will get stronger as well. Then maybe you won%26#039;t care as much about her weight.
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The best way to lose weight is to exercise. Instead of telling her she is fat (and hurting her feelings) go to a unisex Gym and invite her to go with you. If she doesn%26#039;t want to go, let her. You will begin to have a better shape than her. And women will start to notice you more, so she will eventually will want to go with you :)
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The real question here is...Does she want to loose some weight? If you really care, then you will take this in to consideration.
A diamond with a flaw is better than a common stone that is perfect.
- Chinese Proverb
Be not angry that you cannot make others as you wish them to be, since you cannot make yourself as you wish to be.
- Thomas a Kempis
What is tolerance? It is the consequence of humanity. We are all formed of frailty and error; let us pardon reciprocally each other%26#039;s folly - that is the first law of nature.
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You say your girlfriend is beautiful. And 3 or 4 kilograms, equivalent to 6.6 or 8.8 pounds, is not a lot of weight. Does it make THAT MUCH of a difference to you?
Well if it does, then be very careful. Suggest that the two of you go exercise. Otherwise you might hurt her feelings, and SHE might decide to trade up for %26quot;something better%26quot;. -
I don%26#039;t think this is something you should ask her. Maybe she is not the one for you if this bothers you so much. I agree to try doing things of a more physical nature together to help her get into shape, but I don%26#039;t think bringing up the subject will do anything except diminish her self esteem. Please be careful with this.
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that would be a pretty rotten thing to ask her. it would be one thing if she was severly overweight and you were concerned for her health but it sounds like you are just being shallow. accept her the way she is or do her a favor and break up with her so she can find someone nicer.
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Why ask her, often time we eat like our mates, if you start eating healthily spontaneously there is a good chance she will follow suit, if you already eat well and she still doesn%26#039;t then try to do some more physical things with her, like go on a walk when its nice out, go ride bikes etc
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Be honest. Tell her you think she would be smoking hot if she toned up a bit and lost some weight. To be fair, ask her if there is anything about yourself that she would like to change. Wear a cup during the proceedings.
- Dont ask her. Break up with her. If you are so shallow that you are worried about a couple of extra pounds on her then you dont deserve to be with a beautiful woman. Or any woman for that matter.